EROS IN HER HANDS
A 7 DAY EROTIC MASTERY RETREAT FOR WOMEN
with
LAUREN HARKNESS & OM RUPANI
TRAIN IN THE CARNAL ARTS! AWAKEN THE BODY! TOUCH WITH POWER!
Course purpose
We’ve trained Priestesses. Tantrikas. Seekers. Women devoted to truth, energy, and eros. And again and again, we’ve seen the same blind spot:
Most Women Don’t Know How To Arouse Another Woman’s Body!
No secret female code. No natural advantage. Just... hesitation. Missed turn-on.
This retreat is the remedy: a 7-day, hands-on, in-the-body lab for women to master the carnal arts—on themselves and each other.
SELF-EXPANSION BEFORE MENTORING OTHERS & HOLDING SPACE
First, take your own journey. Into your Dominant. Into your Submissive. Into your own Carnal
First, receive what you hope to offer other human beings. You are the first laboratory.
Activate your own body. Expand your own system. From that authentic state—only then—offer something real to another.
COURSE IS OPEN TO NON-PRACTITIONERS
You don’t have to be a practitioners to take this course. A good portion of women who do our Priestess Training do it just for their own expansion. You can do this course just for you. Just please note that Lauren and Om will be speaking to the class often as practitioners in training. We want to hold the students in this training to the stricter standards of being a practitioner.
THIS IS NOT SACRED SEXUALITY.
IT IS CARNALSEXUALITY!
THE GOAL AND PURPOSE OF THIS COURSE IS WOMEN’S SEXUAL AROUSAL AND WOMEN’S SEXUAL ACTIVATION
We want to be really, really clear about this so we attract only the women who really, really want what we are offering. This training has a very physical, carnal, sexual, in-the-body goal.
This is not a course on spiritual sexuality.
This is not a course on sexual healing.
This is to a course on sexual enlightenment.
This is not a course on connecting sex to heart.
If you're looking for sexual healing, divine union, or to make love to the universe... this is not your course.
Our goal here is — which physical practice, which emotional/spiritual/energetic practice is truly effective in creating the following results in the woman’s system on a reliable basis:
The woman is more sexually turned-on.
She is more easily aroused.
She has more sexual energy coursing through her body.
She has easier access to orgasm.
She has developed more pathways to orgasm.
She is more receptive and open to the partners she chooses to be intimate with without having a mass of triggers blocking her turn-on and sabotaging her sexual flow.
WE WANT TO CREATE RESULTS!
We want to create wetter pussies, more orgasms, louder screaming women, more imaginatively erotic women.
Women who love their own sex and love to ignite the sex of other men and women.
This is about wetness, orgasm, screaming, and full-body arousal. The body first. Always the body.
If your emotional wounds or spiritual blocks are hoarding your sexual energy—we’ll hunt them down and reclaim your Eros.
WHO IS THE CORRECT FIT FOR THIS TRAINING?
WHO THIS RETREAT IS FOR:
✅ Women ready to touch, stroke, and fu*k with precision and power.
✅ Practitioners who want erotic fluency, not just theory.
✅ Women who want results: arousal, orgasm, and turn-on—not spiritual bypass.
✅ Bold explorers, edgewalkers, and brave lovers of the feminine form.
NOT FOR:
❌Those who can’t handle high-energy, erotically-charged environments.
❌ Anyone who isn’t willing to touch and be touched
❌ Women hoping to heal without getting messy
❌ Those looking for polite, palatable sexuality
NO PREVIOUS TRAININGS IN SENSUALITY OR BDSM REQUIRED
We are going to take each practice from the ground up. You don’t need previous training and expertise to attend this course.
Aside from that, any and all training that you have done in sensuality and sexuality, you are welcome to show up with your entire body of wisdom and then take things even further.
PERSONAL BOUNDARIES
You are requested to always and always honor your boundaries. You can choose to sit out of any exercise or scene. You can step out of an exercise mid-way if you so desire.
COURSE WILL EMPLOY SOMATIC TOOLS AS WELL AS BDSM TOOLS
We are going to teach what we know. There is plenty in this world that Lauren and Om don’t know. There are plenty of other domains of wisdom outside of our limited areas of mastery. So we are making no claims to some universal understanding of human eros or women’s eros. We in fact want to stay within our limited sandbox of things we know. And that’s what we are going to bring to this training. We are only teaching stuff that both of us have practiced, studied, field-tested, thought about, wrote about, obsessed about ourselves. We are both sex geeks. We have done many trainings and run many experiments in this field of human sexuality and human relating. We are bringing you our best stuff. This is stuff we know. This is stuff we have benefited from ourselves.
THE COURSE INVOLVES STUDENT-PAIRED HANDS-ON TRAINING
You will also get a few Self-Pleasuring and Edging homework assignments during the week, but for the bulk of the course, women will be paired up with each other, and do the specific practice and technique on each other.
We usually pair up students through Tarot cards.
Most exercises and practices are touch-based.
CLASS OUTLINE
This is a sampling of our class material:
SOMATIC ACTIVATION PRACTICES
✦ Clitoral Mastery: Unlock the epicenter of female arousal. Stroke the source. Spread the spark.
✦ Sacred Spot & G-Spot Revelation: Access emotion, stamina, and the exquisite mess of female pleasure.
✦ A-Spot Discovery: Find the deep, elusive gateway to internal bliss.
✦ Cervix: The Sleeping Shrine: Wake the most neglected organ of the feminine body. Touch with reverence.
✦ The Ass as Oracle: The root, the cosmos, the forgotten mystery. Pleasure lives here too.
✦ Nipple Nuance: Decode their moods. Expand their map. The nipples know more than they let on.
✦ Breast Activation & Emotional Clearing: From ornaments to oracles—release the static, claim the signal.
✦ Breast & Chest Dearmoring: Flog. Press. Love. Let the ribs and breastplates weep and soften.
✦ Erotic Circuits Mapping: Nipple to clit. Lips to yoni. Entroitus to anus. Wire your body for connection.
✦ Throat to Pussy: Twin Gates of Release. Open your throat, and watch your pussy follow. Two sphincters, one flow.
✦ Breast-Based Touch: Pour love out through your breasts. Learn to give with heart-organs, not hands.
✦ Loving the Feet: Honor the loyal base. Feet hold a secret map to erotic aliveness.
✦ Basic Dearmoring Tools: Find what’s stuck. Touch it. Name it. Move it. Pleasure it free.
✦ Containment & the Nervous System: Move her from fight/flight to rest/mate. Master the preconditions for arousal.
✦ Accessing the Fu*king Energy Frequency: Learn to activate the most carnal & receptive portal of feminine Eros.
BDSM ACTIVATION PRACTICES
✦ Exploring Pain: Pain is sensation. Learn to wield it as a blade, a balm, a doorway.
✦ Pleasure + Pain Alchemy: Mix the cocktail. Spike the sweetness. Ride the waves no one else can.
✦ Impact Play Essentials: Flog, spank, strike. Ground the body. Arouse the beast.
✦ Erotic Hypnosis: Whisper her into surrender. Command her into turn-on.
✦ Humiliation: Esteem Play: Disrupt identity to unlock pleasure. Your worth and your wetness are not the same.
✦ Degradation as Doorway: Break the third chakra. Let the second one flood the room.
✦ The Fuckdoll Archetype: Drop identity. Drop control. Become hunger in human form.
✦ Surrender & Arousal: A woman’s turn-on begins where her control ends. Repeat it.
✦ Submission as Erotic Portal: Not the wife. Not the boss. Your Eros lives in the archetype you’ve disowned.
✦ Transgression = Turn-On: What’s forbidden holds the key. Let’s get into that room together.
✦ Sex + Aggression: On the other side of aggression lies more sex. Learn to cross over.
✦ Consensual NonConsent (CNC): Violate with love. Enter the erotic underworld and come out wetter.
✦ Roleplay: DDLG & Inner Child Liberation: Your little girl has secrets. Let her play.
RETREAT STRUCTURE
Daily Schedule
- 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM: Morning Session
- 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM: Lunch Break
- 3:00 PM – 6:00 PM: Afternoon Sessions
- 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM: Dinner
- 8:00 PM – 10:00 PM: Evening Scenes & Integration
COURSE FEE & REGISTRATION:
This is a high-level practitioner training. Consider it an Elite Dojo Of Sexual Mastery. What you will learn here, most never will—because they never dared. This is erotic fluency, and it will change how you relate to your body and others forever.
Course fee is $4400 per student. This includes room and board.
You can choose to pay in full or in 2 installments.
You will be rooming with a classmate. Some single rooms are available.
CONTACT US!
If you any questions about any aspects of this training,
please fell free to contact Om and/or Lauren : OmRupani@me.com, Lauren@LaurenHarkness.com
ABOUT YOUR TEACHERS
LAUREN HARKNESS
Lauren is a trained Tantrika and Advanced Certified Tantra Educator with Charles Muir’s Source School of Tantra, Orgasmic Meditation Instructor, trained in the D/s arts and shamanism with Om Rupani, Graduate of Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts, Mastery Graduate, Jewelry Designer, Seductress, and a stand for everyone ready to heal and further ignite their sexual self, sovereign and free! She teaches Tantra and other modalities of healing and personal growth. She also offers private Tantra Sessions, Orgasmic Meditation Training, Coaching Sessions, or Reiki Healing Attunements.
She teaches large group classes internationally and has taught at Burning Man, FYN, Dark Odyssey, and is the Co-Founder of The Tantra Institute of NY.
You can reach out to Lauren with questions at Lauren@LaurenHarkness.com
OM RUPANI
Has been teaching workshops in Tantra, BDSM & Man-Woman relating for over 15 years. He has taught his in-person classes all over the world, and these days, people from all over the world are enrolled in his various online courses.
Om has a book, ‘Prerequisites To Ecstasy’.
Your can find out more about Om and his curriculum at OmRupani.org.
Your can reach out to him with questions at OmRupani@me.com