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BDSM FUNDAMENTALS - Jersey City, NJ


  • Jersey City, NJ 07305 United States (map)

POWER            SURRENDER            SELF-EXPRESSION            JOURNEY

Curious about BDSM? 

Maybe you’ve already had a taste of D/S magic in your sex. 

Maybe you’ve read about it and its transformative possibilities. 

Maybe a friend has shared with you their experience of the healing power of consciously exploring one’s taboo desires.


In this 2-day immersive experience, you will take a journey into the realm of BDSM.  This course is designed for beginners.  We will start with the fundamentals of the Dom & Sub archetypes and how to embody them in our own systems and in our partnerships in a conscious and powerful way.


You will acquire basic rope bondage skills and proper safety training for doing impact play, and much more.  You will explore some more advanced topics such as Humiliation Play and Consensual Nonconsent.  You will learn what it takes to make the d/s dynamic sustainable and pleasurable over the  long term in a relationship, as well as how to introduce this dynamic into an existing relationship.


This course is for couples as well as singles.  This is an experiences-based, exercise-based course.  If you are coming with your partner, you are very welcome to just partner with them for all the exercises.  If you are coming singly, you will partner will your fellow students for the exercise and scenes.


YOU ARE ALWASY AT CHOICE.  Learning to speak our desires and boundaries in real time is a crucial aspect of d/s play.  Even in the class you will be completely at choice as to how much you want to participate and how deeply you want to go.  If you feel like you want to sit out a particular exercise or scene, you will be absolutely at choice to do so.

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WEEKEND OVERVIEW

DAY 1 - ARCHETYPES & EMBODIMENT

OBSTACLES TO D/S EXPLORATION

EXPLORING DOM/SUB ARCHETYPES

POSTURE SCENES

SAFETY TRAINING FOR IMPACT PLAY

SPANKING TRAINING & SCENE

INTRODUCTION TO ROPE BONDAGE

SCENE NEGOTIATION & DESIGN

END-OF-DAY SCENE



DAY 2 - THE SACRED & THE PROFANE

HUMILIATION PLAY

ADDITIONAL ROPE SKILLS

WISDOM OF ENTERING INTO PAIN

COMBINING PAIN & PLEASURE

CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT

TOUCHING DEVOTION THROUGH D/S

SCENE NEGOTIATION & DESIGN

FINAL SCENE

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Earlier Event: October 26
TANTRA meets BDSM - Jersey City
Later Event: November 16
CREATING THE DOMINANT MAN