Please go over the three handouts on THE 7 CHAKRA MARRIAGE, as well as the evaluation forms for men and women. (Posted in Eventbrite. Please follow link below.)

Each section on these forms refers to a different RELATIONSHIP MASTERY that we can work on and develop in order to make ourselves more attractive to prospective partners, and more successful within our relationships.

We will go over these various metrics.  You can voice your assent or disagreement regarding how much these evaluations matter.  We will review and study some of the masteries over the two days so you may acquire new tools for clearly improving your attractiveness as well as relationship skills.

You will do some exercise with each other where you use the forms to rate your partner, but the entire weekend will not be take up by this, only a small portion.  The bulk of the conversation will be about the various masteries we may acquire to improve our score on these evaluation forms.

LOCATION : BOULDER, CO

WITH OM RUPANI & LAURIE HANDLERS

6 DAYS IN AUSTRIA | AUGUST 1 - 6, 2023

Laurie and Om are very excited to be offering this retreat version of their world travelled TANTRA meets BDSM course. The retreat format will allow us to create a more immersive and experiential journey that will allow the participants to go deeper in their exploration.

The retreat will offer greater free playtime to students to practice the topics covered in our conversations. Come explore and have an adventure! All people who have done our class before are welcome and invited to join. We will be presenting new material for you to incorporate, and the retreat structure will create opportunities for more experience based learning than was possible in the weekend workshops.

For newcomers, we always start our course from foundational pieces and build up from there. So beginners and beginner minds are most welcome.

COURSE PURPOSE

Men want to win.  Men want to win in life.  Men want to win in the bedroom.  Men want to win in their relationships with women.

To win, we first and foremost need the correct information.  We need accurate data.  We need knowledge.

We need to know what direction to set our vision towards.  We need to know in which direction our goal lies so that we may pivot ourselves in that direction.

Just about all the work I do with men is designed with this focus in mind —- to provide men with good information about what makes life successful for a man — whether he is on his own, whether in his work, whether with women and sex.

In this weekend class, you will be provided with a ton of raw data about yourself in regards to women.  You will interact with a group of women practitioners who will be present during the course with the expressed purpose of interacting with you men, and giving honest and clean feedback on how they feel you are occurring for them, how they feel about you, how they feel when interacting with you.  They are going to tell you the truth — gently.  They are going to give you the absolute honest information on how attractive they find you; they will tell you how much they would like to have sex with you; they will tell you how drawn they feel to date you and to consider entering into a relationship with you.

This information is GOLD!  Most men never receive such honest data from the women they are interacting with.  As a result, most men are operating on faulty and incomplete data about themselves with women.  They keep making the same mistakes.  They keep not getting the results they want.

Interactions with women will be interspersed with teaching modules from what  Om teaches in his Creating The Dominant Man class.  Each teaching module will cover a particular MASCULINE MASTERY.  The more of these masteries you acquire, the more attractive you will become to women.

The information being presented here is not ideology or philosophy or Om’s view on what good masculinity is.  This information is field tested against women’s desires.  I look to see what kind of men the women are going for.  What kind of men are the women crazy about?  What qualities in a man evoke a woman’s enthusiasm?  Men want to be the kind of men that women feel enthusiastic about.  So let’s get to the source and figure out what that is.

I’m very excited to be presenting and teaching at this wonderful event!

I will be offering 5 1-hour group scene experiences during the event on June 23.

On the following day, I will be offering a 3-hour workshop on man-woman relating, addressing how men can provide better emotional containment to their women, and how women can better allow their men to win with them.

During this 3 Day journey, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

During this 3 Day journey, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

A 6-WEEK ONLINE INTENSIVE - FOR WOMEN, MEN & COUPLES

taught by

OM RUPANI

IN THIS 6 WEEK COURSE:

You will learn the foundational principles and structures of BDSM play within the safety and container of fellow explorers.
 

You will acquire mastery in the physicality of BDSM play to create a deeper knowing of your body, your eros and your desires.

You will widen your permission field to explore the deeper caverns of your taboos.

You will learn how to communicate your desires and find the partners that are the right match for your desires.

You will explore the tremendous possibilities for creating healing and release through Scene Play.

Employing the wisdom of the chakra system, you will deepen your understanding of the energetics of BDSM play and how these energetics can be cultivated to deepen the intimacy between the two partners.

You will invite your erotic polarity to connect with your heart energies of Devotion and Love, bridging sexual surrender with heart surrender.

After the course, you will be part of a community of trained explorers with whom you can deepen your understanding and knowledge, have support and find potential playmates and romantic partners.

12 WEEK INTENSIVE

LOCATION: ONLINE

FEES: $4300 — PAYMENT PLAN AVAILABLE

COURSE SCHEDULE

WEEK 1:  Class - Sunday, August 22; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, August 25; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 2:  Class - Sunday, August 29; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, September 1; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 3:  Class - Sunday, September 5; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, September 8; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 4:  Class - Sunday, September 12; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, September 15; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 5:  Class - Sunday, September 19; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, September 22; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 6:  Class - Sunday, September 26; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, September 29; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 7:  Class - Sunday, October 3; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, October 6; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 8:  Class - Sunday, October 10; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, October 13; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 9:  Class - Sunday, October 17; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, October 20; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 10:  Class - Sunday, October 24; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, October 27; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 11:  Class - Sunday, October 31; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, November 3; 10 -11am EST.

WEEK 12:  Class - Sunday, November 7; Noon-3pm EST.  Support Call - Wednesday, November 10; 10 -11am EST.

COURSE RECORDING AND ACCESS

All classes and support calls will be recorded and posted within the course pages.  If you miss a session, you will be able to circle back and review it.

You will have access to all course materials and class recordings for a year — till the end of 2021.

OVERVIEW

This class is for straight men who want to learn to get in touch with their conscious, masculine dominance, and who want the inside track on the feminine psyche and what it deeply craves from the masculine.

A man’s DOMINANCE should be as fluid, integrated and even invisible as his CHARACTER.  In fact, if a man’s dominance is genuinely anchored in his being and not just some put-on, it will feel indistinguishable from his character.  His dominance is not a pose; it is not a set of mannerisms.  Nor is it always loud or abrasive or even aggressive.  The full range of true dominance is more subtle and even poetic than that.

You must come into this course believing that there is a DOM inside of you already.  It is an archetype that resides in your spirit.  It is nothing that needs to be added on to you.  It is something that needs to be awoken in you.  Your Dom has his own wisdom, his own instinct, his own desires, his own sense of morality and self-worth.

Depending on what kind of background your are coming from, a small or large amount of cobwebs might be covering up your Dom archetype.  During the course of our conversations, we will do our best to clear your cobwebs.  Some of them will go pretty quickly.  Others will likely take some practice and repetition to extricate from your system.

Consider this class a deep attitude adjustment.  I am going to get in there and tinker with your notions of what masculinity and femininity is, and what configuration of the two can yield the most vibrant and passionate results.  And you are always at choice what you accept and reject in the material that is presented.  Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide and define your manhood.

EROTIC POLARITY FOR COUPLES, SINGLES & PLAY PARTNERS

Course Schedule: 4 two hour sessions

The Schedule for this class is:

2/17 - 8-10pm EST

2/18 - 8-10pm EST

2/25 - 8-10pm EST

2/26 - 8-10pm EST

Plus a Support call on 2/23 - 6-7pm EST.

Prerequisite: None

Delivery: Virtual via Zoom (see below)

Description - Please Read Thoroughly

Erotic experiences can become hotter, more satisfying and even transcendent when we unlock some of the mysteries of the archetypes. Join Master Teacher Om Rupani for this four part, eight hour course on the Dominant and Submissive Archetypes. Through his many years of learning and teaching, Om is able to guide participants into deeply embodied experiences through the exploration of polarity.

This course is designed for couples, singles and play partners. Each person will have an opportunity to embody both roles.

By separating the giving and the receiving in sensual play, you can learn to invite a rich experience of polarity into your erotic partnership. Learn how to hold a masterful position for your partner in which they can surrender and receive. Learn to give fully and skillfully so that your partner can go entirely into the receptive mode and take in what you are pouring into them. And then switch roles.

Another great way to bring polarity is to create a Leading/Following dynamic in your partnership. Let one partner fully embody their Dominant archetype; let the other partner go into their submissive archetype. The B/D/S/M realm has a long and rich lineage in the art of creating this particular polarity.

In this four session, eight hour course, we will delve into these archetypes and learn how to create scenes for exploring these polarities.

During the course you will need privacy and a place where you will not be interrupted and a stable internet connection.

The course will be recorded, but we strongly suggest planning to be present in real time with the group for maximum benefit.

There will be a one hour mid-course check in session on Tuesday, Feb 23rd from 6-7pm EST.

You will need to have a few supplies on hand for class: a blindfold and two pieces of bondage rope. Specifics will be provided in your registration email.

During this 4 week jounrney, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

CLASS STRUCTURE + TIME COMMITMENTS

• At this time, this course is being offered as a self-study workshop.

• We have run this course twice.

• The video recording of ALL the classes and support calls from BOTH courses will be available to you to review at your own pace, along with all the written materials and handouts.

• You are also invited to join us on our Monthly Support Calls.

WHY DOES THIS COURSE EXIST?

1. Because more and more women are feeling the call of their Submissive archetype.

2. Because more and more women are realizing that the full expression of their Eros lies in them holding the feminine polarity more completely instead of competing with their man for the masculine polarity.

3. Because more and more women are realizing that a more fulfilled and harmonious life is possible in a healthy and balanced dynamic with their man that is not the same as the egalitarian-obsessed, equity-obsessed model of relating that has been running the show since the dawn of modern feminism.

4. Because more and more women are realizing that they can have the fullness of their Eros, the fullness of their brilliance and GENIUS in this world, as well as the fullness of their soul expression while still anchored deeply in their femininity and in deep, devotional submission to their man.

This course series, and much of the rest of the information and education presented here has been created to facilitate the modern woman in the realization of this new ideal.

WHO IS THIS COURSE FOR:

• Women who are interested in deepening the expression of their Submissive archetype in relation to a Dominant Man.

• Women who are interested in touching and nurturing their DEVOTION in their dynamic with their man.

• Women who want to explore the joys of BDSM and Dominance & Submission play and relating with their men.

• Women who want to deepen the expression of their FEMININE polarity.

• Women who want to more comprehensively explore and embody all the various Submissive archetypes that fall under the WOMAN archetype.

• Women who genuinely want to create a win-win dynamic with their man.

• Women who are exhausted with the masculinized version of female empowerment and want to turn to the feminine potentiality for fuller expression of her soul.

• Women who want their men to deeply hold the Masculine end of the polarity, while they themselves deepen their expression of Feminine polarity.

COURSE SCHEDULE

WEEK 1

September 12, 2020.  Saturday. Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

September 15, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm New York Time - Week 1 Topics Support Call

WEEK 2

September 19, 2020.  Saturday.  Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

September 22, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm New York Time - Week 2 Topics Support Call

WEEK 3

September 26, 2020.  Sunday.  Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

September 29, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm.  New York Time - Week 3 Topics Support Call

COURSE SCHEDULE

WEEK 1

August 8, 2020.  Saturday. Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

August 11, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm New York Time - Week 1 Topics Support Call

WEEK 2

August 15, 2020.  Saturday.  Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

August 18, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm New York Time - Week 2 Topics Support Call

WEEK 3

August 22, 2020.  Saturday.  Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

August 25, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm.  New York Time - Week 3 Topics Support Call

WHY DOES THIS COURSE EXIST?

1. Because more and more women are feeling the call of their Submissive archetype.

2. Because more and more women are realizing that the full expression of their Eros lies in them holding the feminine polarity more completely instead of competing with their man for the masculine polarity.

3. Because more and more women are realizing that a more fulfilled and harmonious life is possible in a healthy and balanced dynamic with their man that is not the same as the egalitarian-obsessed, equity-obsessed model of relating that has been running the show since the dawn of modern feminism.

4. Because more and more women are realizing that they can have the fullness of their Eros, the fullness of their brilliance and GENIUS in this world, as well as the fullness of their soul expression while still anchored deeply in their femininity and in deep, devotional submission to their man.

This course series, and much of the rest of the information and education presented here has been created to facilitate the modern woman in the realization of this new ideal.

WHO IS THIS COURSE FOR:

• Women who are interested in deepening the expression of their Submissive archetype in relation to a Dominant Man.

• Women who are interested in touching and nurturing their DEVOTION in their dynamic with their man.

• Women who want to explore the joys of BDSM and Dominance & Submission play and relating with their men.

• Women who want to deepen the expression of their FEMININE polarity.

• Women who want to more comprehensively explore and embody all the various Submissive archetypes that fall under the WOMAN archetype.

• Women who genuinely want to create a win-win dynamic with their man.

• Women who are exhausted with the masculinized version of female empowerment and want to turn to the feminine potentiality for fuller expression of her soul.

• Women who want their men to deeply hold the Masculine end of the polarity, while they themselves deepen their expression of Feminine polarity.

In this weekend journey, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

COURSE SCHEDULE

WEEK 1

June 20, 2020.  Saturday. Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

June 23, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm New York Time - Week 1 Topics Support Call

WEEK 2

June 27, 2020.  Saturday.  Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

June 30, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm New York Time - Week 2 Topics Support Call

WEEK 3

July 5, 2020.  Sunday.  Noon-5pm New York Time - Live On-Line Class

July 7, 2020.  Tuesday.  5-6:30pm.  New York Time - Week 3 Topics Support Call

WHY DOES THIS COURSE EXIST?

1. Because more and more women are feeling the call of their Submissive archetype.

2. Because more and more women are realizing that the full expression of their Eros lies in them holding the feminine polarity more completely instead of competing with their man for the masculine polarity.

3. Because more and more women are realizing that a more fulfilled and harmonious life is possible in a healthy and balanced dynamic with their man that is not the same as the egalitarian-obsessed, equity-obsessed model of relating that has been running the show since the dawn of modern feminism.

4. Because more and more women are realizing that they can have the fullness of their Eros, the fullness of their brilliance and GENIUS in this world, as well as the fullness of their soul expression while still anchored deeply in their femininity and in deep, devotional submission to their man.

This course series, and much of the rest of the information and education presented here has been created to facilitate the modern woman in the realization of this new ideal.

WHO IS THIS COURSE FOR:

• Women who are interested in deepening the expression of their Submissive archetype in relation to a Dominant Man.

• Women who are interested in touching and nurturing their DEVOTION in their dynamic with their man.

• Women who want to explore the joys of BDSM and Dominance & Submission play and relating with their men.

• Women who want to deepen the expression of their FEMININE polarity.

• Women who want to more comprehensively explore and embody all the various Submissive archetypes that fall under the WOMAN archetype.

• Women who genuinely want to create a win-win dynamic with their man.

• Women who are exhausted with the masculinized version of female empowerment and want to turn to the feminine potentiality for fuller expression of her soul.

• Women who want their men to deeply hold the Masculine end of the polarity, while they themselves deepen their expression of Feminine polarity.

WEEKEND OVERVIEW

DAY 1 — MASTERY & SURRENDER

THE POSITIONAL ARCHETYPES OF MASTERY & SURRENDER

SERVING FROM A POSITION OF MASTERY

LIMITATIONS OF THE SURRENDER GAME

DOM AS MASTER. DOM AS SURRENDER

SUBMISIVE AS SURRENDER. SUBMISSIVE AS MASTER.

UNDERSTANDING SERVICE

SEXUAL SERVICE

MASTERING ONESELF. SERVING ONE’S PARTNER

DAY 2 — FORM & CHAOS

CHAOS AS THE GENERATIVE ZONE OF ECSTASY AND TRANSFORMATION

THE GIFT OF HOLDING FORM FOR YOUR PARTNER

PARENT - CHILD PLAY

FROM HUMILIATION TO HUMILITY

THE YES-NO TEMPLATE OF OUR EROS

CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT

THE ALCEMIZATION OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS THROUG D/S PLAY

OWNERSHIP

In this weekend journey, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

In this weekend journey, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

In this weekend journey, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

WEEKEND OVERVIEW

DAY 1 — MASTERY & SURRENDER

THE POSITIONAL ARCHETYPES OF MASTERY & SURRENDER

SERVING FROM A POSITION OF MASTERY

LIMITATIONS OF THE SURRENDER GAME

DOM AS MASTER. DOM AS SURRENDER

SUBMISIVE AS SURRENDER. SUBMISSIVE AS MASTER.

UNDERSTANDING SERVICE

SEXUAL SERVICE

MASTERING ONESELF. SERVING ONE’S PARTNER

DAY 2 — FORM & CHAOS

CHAOS AS THE GENERATIVE ZONE OF ECSTASY AND TRANSFORMATION

THE GIFT OF HOLDING FORM FOR YOUR PARTNER

PARENT - CHILD PLAY

FROM HUMILIATION TO HUMILITY

THE YES-NO TEMPLATE OF OUR EROS

CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT

THE ALCEMIZATION OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS THROUG D/S PLAY

OWNERSHIP

OVERVIEW

This class is for straight men who want to learn to get in touch with their conscious, masculine dominance, and who want the inside track on the feminine psyche and what it deeply craves from the masculine.

This class will be taught in person over a weekend.  That will be followed by 3 online coaching and Q&A sessions.  These sessions will occur over a Zoom conference call and will be recorded and posted publicly to YouTube.  This will give the participating men a chance to review and revisit the material.  The second purpose of posting these conversations publicly is to enroll other men interested in doing this work into future workshops.

TEACHERS

Om Rupani - Om has been practicing and teaching the art of Dominance & Submission for over 15 years. He also teaches workshops in Tantra, Man-Woman Relating and Sensuality. He has presented his works in a multitude of countries on most continents. You can check out his book, ‘Prerequisites to Ecstasy’. You can learn more about him: HERE

Sarrah Rose - Sarrah Rose is the founder of Tantric Activation. She’s a certified Sex Coach and specializes in Men’s Sexuality. As a Sex Coach, Sarrah works with men to help them become Advanced Lovers and Sexual Masters. Sarrah understands that sexuality is linked to confidence in all areas of life and from premature ejaculation to difficulty getting hard to porn addiction to inability to bring their women to orgasm, Sarrah guides men through these issues and more so that they can reach their goals.

CONTENT

A man’s DOMINANCE should be as fluid, integrated and even invisible as his CHARACTER.  In fact, if a man’s dominance is genuinely anchored in his being and not just some put-on, it will feel indistinguishable from his character.  His dominance is not a pose; it is not a set of mannerisms.  Nor is it always loud or abrasive or even aggressive.  The full range of true dominance is more subtle and even poetic than that.

You must come into this course believing that there is a DOM inside of you already.  It is an archetype that resides in your spirit.  It is nothing that needs to be added on to you.  It is something that needs to be awoken in you.  Your Dom has his own wisdom, his own instinct, his own desires, his own sense of morality and self-worth.

Depending on what kind of background your are coming from, a small or large amount of cobwebs might be covering up your Dom archetype.  During the course of our conversations, we will do our best to clear your cobwebs.  Some of them will go pretty quickly.  Others will likely take some practice and repetition to extricate from your system.

Consider this class a deep attitude adjustment.  We are going to get in there and tinker with your notions of what masculinity and femininity is, and what configuration of the two can yield the most vibrant and passionate results.  And you are always at choice what you accept and reject in the material that is presented.  Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide and define your manhood.

Overall, Om and Sarrah are going to divide their labors a bit during this workshop.  Om will present concepts and lead discussions.  Sarrah will take the men into somatic exercises to get them in touch with their primal power and confront the baggage from the past that is keeping you from being your fullest.  And she will give you the female-side of the information that you likely have not received from the women in your own life in the past.

Come with an open mind.  Come prepared to hear at least a few ideas that are likely going to bother you deeply.

PRE-CLASS HOMEWORK

Watch Band Of Brothers.

Sincerely,

Om & Sarrah

POWER            SURRENDER            SELF-EXPRESSION            JOURNEY

Curious about BDSM? 

Maybe you’ve already had a taste of D/S magic in your sex. 

Maybe you’ve read about it and its transformative possibilities. 

Maybe a friend has shared with you their experience of the healing power of consciously exploring one’s taboo desires.

In this 2-day immersive experience, you will take a journey into the realm of BDSM.  This course is designed for beginners.  We will start with the fundamentals of the Dom & Sub archetypes and how to embody them in our own systems and in our partnerships in a conscious and powerful way.

You will acquire basic rope bondage skills and proper safety training for doing impact play, and much more.  You will explore some more advanced topics such as Humiliation Play and Consensual Nonconsent.  You will learn what it takes to make the d/s dynamic sustainable and pleasurable over the  long term in a relationship, as well as how to introduce this dynamic into an existing relationship.

This course is for couples as well as singles.  This is an experiences-based, exercise-based course.  If you are coming with your partner, you are very welcome to just partner with them for all the exercises.  If you are coming singly, you will partner will your fellow students for the exercise and scenes.

YOU ARE ALWASY AT CHOICE.  Learning to speak our desires and boundaries in real time is a crucial aspect of d/s play.  Even in the class you will be completely at choice as to how much you want to participate and how deeply you want to go.  If you feel like you want to sit out a particular exercise or scene, you will be absolutely at choice to do so.

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WEEKEND OVERVIEW

DAY 1 - ARCHETYPES & EMBODIMENT

OBSTACLES TO D/S EXPLORATION

EXPLORING DOM/SUB ARCHETYPES

POSTURE SCENES

SAFETY TRAINING FOR IMPACT PLAY

SPANKING TRAINING & SCENE

INTRODUCTION TO ROPE BONDAGE

SCENE NEGOTIATION & DESIGN

END-OF-DAY SCENE

DAY 2 - THE SACRED & THE PROFANE

HUMILIATION PLAY

ADDITIONAL ROPE SKILLS

WISDOM OF ENTERING INTO PAIN

COMBINING PAIN & PLEASURE

CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT

TOUCHING DEVOTION THROUGH D/S

SCENE NEGOTIATION & DESIGN

FINAL SCENE

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In this weekend journey, Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros.  No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros.  In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Erotic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and sexing.  Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.